tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8642898849783806048.post1791856773513168185..comments2024-03-04T16:41:10.393-08:00Comments on dahlhaus: My week with the boysdahlhaushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10070656357173799352noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8642898849783806048.post-59191233735238053872010-05-26T18:47:21.372-07:002010-05-26T18:47:21.372-07:00Yeah Vicki, it's been a bit of a roller-coaste...Yeah Vicki, it's been a bit of a roller-coaster ride as far a school is concerned. At least he's great at making friends and is behaving fairly well in school. The concern becomes when he actually starts noticing that he's really behind and struggling at his work compared to his peers. Most kids who struggle at schol start recognizing their weaknesses in about grade 3 (J's in gr. 2) and often that's when they start playing the 'class clown' or retreating into their own shell as they really lose confidence. I guess it's good to sort through these kind of issues earlier than later. I don't think he has a diagnosable learning disability but we will see what the issues seem to be and hopefully get some help with his learning style from the psychologist.dahlhaushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10070656357173799352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8642898849783806048.post-14291195751208118012010-05-26T18:22:41.068-07:002010-05-26T18:22:41.068-07:00heather, that sounds hard. and scary. it is so ...heather, that sounds hard. and scary. it is so hard to know if what you are doing as a parent is the right thing. and there are so many choices out there, so it's easy to wonder if you're missing the 'next best thing'. i really appreciate hearing your thoughts and about what you're going through. good luck with it all.vicki hartmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02109926202048995466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8642898849783806048.post-50951702966030403592010-05-26T14:13:19.922-07:002010-05-26T14:13:19.922-07:00Thanks for the advice, Candy. I do agree that he ...Thanks for the advice, Candy. I do agree that he needs something he can really excel at and feel good at!<br />I think if it was music/art or drama I'd be a little more up for it because those are things I'm more naturally inclined towards. Standing outside in the pouring rain watching a 2 hour soccer practice, well that just doesn't feel like my kind of Saturday morning. I know that I've got to get over that and I may appreciate the sport a whole lot more if my son was playing it, but I may need baby steps.dahlhaushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10070656357173799352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8642898849783806048.post-56790241782980226662010-05-26T13:25:55.550-07:002010-05-26T13:25:55.550-07:00I totally hear you on the whole wanting to avoid t...I totally hear you on the whole wanting to avoid the whole overscheduling thing...but it is so worthwhile to have your child really excel at something. With my older guy its music, and it's really allowing him to fit in more at school (he's finishing up 7th grade and he's in the advanced group which is a small jazz band, so he's finally in a small enough setting with enough time and shared experiences to begin to relate to his peers). Liam has had SO MANY music opportunities this year, it was a little nuts, but he's getting wonderful self confidence from it. And though we're able to avoid the drive thru dinners, there's plenty of snack eating in the car.<br /><br />Good luck in figuring this out...and of course, the good news is that these things can change from season to season. Being a family, raising kids, it's always a work in progress! (Hey, I need to remember this myself - thanks for the prompt Heather!)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com